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(3/16/98)
"During our mortal schooling in submissiveness, we will see the
visible crosses that some carry, but other crosses will go unseen. A few
individuals may appear to have no trials at all, which, if it were so,
would be a trial in itself. Indeed, if, as do trees, our souls had rings
to measure the years of greatest personal growth, the wide rings would
likely reflect the years of greatest moisture — but from tears, not
rainfall." — Neal A. Maxwell, "We Will Prove Them Herewith," p. 7
(3/17/98)
"There are times when you simply have to righteously hang on and
outlast the devil until his depressive spirit leaves you. As the Lord
told the Prophet Joseph Smith: "Thine adversity and thine afflictions
shall be but a small moment; And then, if thou endure it well, God shall
exalt thee on high" (D&C
121:7-8)." — "Teachings of Ezra Taft Benson," p. 396
(3/18/98)
"Our heavenly Father has designed that His Spirit should dwell in us
to comfort and cheer us in our onward march through life, in times of
adversity, to give us strength and courage to bear up faithfully under
all trials that may be brought upon us, that we may maintain our
integrity to the end." — George F. Richards, "Conference Report,"
October 1906, p. 68
(3/19/98)
"When you face adversity, you can be led to ask many questions. Some
serve a useful purpose; others do not. To ask, Why does this have to
happen to me? Why do I have to suffer this, now? What have I done to
cause this? will lead you into blind alleys. It really does no good to
ask questions that reflect opposition to the will of God. Rather ask,
What am I to do? What am I to learn from this experience? What am I to
change? Whom am I to help? How can I remember my many blessings in times
of trial? Willing sacrifice of deeply held personal desires in favor of
the will of God is very hard to do. Yet, when you pray with real
conviction, 'Please let me know Thy will' and 'May Thy will be done,'
you are in the strongest position to receive the maximum help from your
loving Father." — Richard G. Scott, "Trust
in
the Lord," General Conference, October 1995
(3/20/98)
"A worthwhile attitude for all of us could well be, 'Help us, O
Lord, to remember thy love for us and help us to be fortified by Thy
strength when our eyes are blurred with tears of sorrow and our vision
is limited.' It is expedient for all of us, particularly those who may
be weighed down by grief because of acts of misconduct or misfortune, to
recall that even the Prophet Joseph Smith had hours of despair because
of his very trying experiences in the Liberty Jail. Perhaps he too was
entitled to question, 'What did I do wrong? What have I done to
displease Thee, O Lord? Where have I failed? Why are the answers to my
prayers and pleas withheld?' In response to the feelings of his heart
and mind he cried out: 'O God, where art thou? And where is the pavilion
that covereth thy hiding place?' (D&C
121:1.) The reassuring response came: 'My son, peace be unto thy
soul; thine adversity and thine afflictions shall be but a small moment;
And then, if thou endure it well, God shall exalt thee on high; thou
shalt triumph over all thy foes.' (D&C
121:7-8.)" — Marvin J. Ashton, "If
Thou
Endure It Well," General Conference, October 1984
(7/20/99)
"Patience is always involved in the spiritual chemistry of life—not
only when we try to turn trials and tribulations, the carbon dioxide, as
it were, into joy and growth, but it also builds upon the seemingly
ordinary experiences to bring about happy, spiritual outcomes. (Neither
patience nor photosynthesis is a conspicuous process.)" — Neal A.
Maxwell, "Notwithstanding My Weakness," p. 64
(7/21/99)
"Let us remember — trials are an evidence of a Father's love. They
are given as a blessing to his children. They are given as opportunities
for growth. Now, how do we approach them? How do we overcome them? How
are we magnified by them? There seems to be a reason why we lose our
composure in adversity-why we think we can no longer cope with what
we're faced with here in this life. There is a reason why we give up,
why we 'fall apart at the seams' so to speak. The reason may be so
simple that we lose sight of it. Could it be it's because we begin to
lose contact with our greatest source of strength— our Father in heaven?
He is the key to our enjoying sweetness in adversity-in gaining strength
from our trials— he and he alone." — H. Burke Peterson, Conference, Oct.
1973
(7/22/99)
"Why does God, if He truly loves his children, permit Satan to tempt
us and thereby jeopardize our chances to gain the experiences of
mortality and return back to enjoy eternal life in His presence? The
answer is given by a great prophet-teacher: 'Wherefore, the Lord God
gave unto man that he should act for himself. Wherefore, man could not
act for himself save it should be that he was enticed by the one [which
is evil] or the other [which is good]' (2
Nephi 2:16). You think about that for a moment. If there were no
opposition to good, would there be any chance to exercise your agency or
right to choose? To deny you that privilege would be to deny you the
opportunity to grow in knowledge, experience, and power. God has given
laws with penalties affixed so that man might be made afraid of sin and
guided into paths of truth and duty (see Alma
42:20)." — "The Teachings of Harold B. Lee"
"Even though it is true that there must be an 'opposition in all things' [2 Nephi 2:11], none of us has the personal obligation to provide that opposition." — Neal A. Maxwell, "All These Things Shall Give Thee Experience," p. 108
"There will be trials and disappointments to our young people, but I am convinced that any person who has real faith in God and a testimony of this work can endure anything and still keep his spirit sweet. We want our young people prepared so they can endure anything." — "The Teachings of Ezra Taft Benson," p. 205
Adversity brings knowledge, and knowledge wisdom. - Welsh proverb
"We have a promise of divine assistance in times of need. All of us face times in our lives when we need heavenly help in a special and urgent way. We all have moments when we are overwhelmed by circumstances or confused by the counsel we get from others, and we feel a great need to receive spiritual guidance, a great need to find the right path and do the right thing. In the scriptural preface to this latter-day dispensation, the Lord promised that if we would be humble in such times of need and turn to him for aid, we would 'be made strong, and [be] blessed from on high, and receive knowledge from time to time' (D&C 1:28). That help is ours if we will but seek it, trust in it, and follow what King Benjamin, in the Book of Mormon, called 'the enticings of the Holy Spirit' (Mosiah 3:19). Perhaps no promise in life is more reassuring than that promise of divine assistance and spiritual guidance in times of need. It is a gift freely given from heaven, a gift that we need from our earliest youth through the very latest days of our lives." — "The Teachings of Howard W. Hunter," p. 59
"In speaking of adversity, could I just tell you now that it is one of those things that is going to happen in your life and in my life. We are all going to pass through adversity. It is a requirement. ...Now, when the trials come, what should we do? First of all, we must resist murmuring. We must not criticize or rise up against our Heavenly Father. ...We should be on our knees constantly so that we can receive from our Heavenly Father the assurance that this is part of our trial. Then we should seek to recognize our need to be tutored. We do not know what Heavenly Father has in store for us. ...I pray, brothers and sisters, that when the adversities come--and, as I have mentioned, they will come--we might respond to our Father in Heaven, saying, 'I am not sure why I am having this adversity at this time or at this intensity. I know I will have something to learn. Help me to endure. Just help me to endure this trial that I have.' Then maybe, like the Savior, we will say: 'Not my will, but thine'." — Harold G. Hillam, BYU Devotional Address, June 25, 1996
(7/23/99)
"In hard times we have a chance to reevaluate and reorder our
priorities in life. We learn what is most important to us. The way is
open to strengthen faith and testimony." — James E. Faust, "Reach Up For
The Light," p. 80
(7/24/99)
"In relation to events that will yet take place, the kind of trials,
troubles, and sufferings which we shall have t o cope with, it is to me
a matter of very little moment; these things are in the hands of God, he
dictates the affairs of the human family, and directs and controls our
affairs; and the great thing that we, as a people, have to do is to seek
after and cleave unto our God, to be in close affinity with him, and to
seek for his guidance, and his blessing and Holy Spirit to lead and
guide us in the right path. Then it matters not what it is nor who it is
that we have to contend with, God will give us strength according to our
day." — John Taylor, "Journal of Discourses," 18:282
(11/8/00)
"A life without problems or limitations or challenges -- life
without 'opposition in all things,' as Lehi phrased it -- would be,
paradoxically but in very fact, be less rewarding and ennobling than one
which confronts, even frequently confronts, difficulty and
disappointment and sorrow. As beloved Eve said, were it not for the
difficulties faced in a fallen world, neither she nor Adam nor any of
the rest of us ever would have known 'the joy of our redemption, and the
eternal life which God giveth unto all the obedient.'" — Jeffrey R.
Holland, "The
Peaceable
Things of the Kingdom," General Conference, October 1996
(11/9/00)
"The rod of iron represents the word of God, that leads us to the
love of God (see 1
Nephi 11:25). You must hold firmly to the rod of iron through the
mists and darknesses, the hardships and trials of life. If you relax
your grip and slip from the path, the iron rod might become lost in the
darkness for a time until you repent and regain your grasp of it." —
Joseph B. Wirthlin, "Running
Your
Marathon," General Conference, October 1989
(11/10/00)
"Well, Christ's love can be tough. What is he trying to do with us?
In his best-seller, The Road Less Traveled (New York: Simon and
Schuster, 1978), Dr. M. Scott Peck said that no matter how much we may
pussyfoot around it, all who ask the question 'What is God's love
leading to?' come to a single terrifying conclusion: God wants us to
become like himself. We are being prepared for godhood, and it hurts; it
hurts abominably, but there is peace." — John K. Carmack, "Upheld
by
the Prayers of the Church," General Conference, April 1984
(11/11/00)
"We may foolishly bring unhappiness and trouble, even suffering upon
ourselves. These are not always to be regarded as penalties imposed by a
displeased Creator. They are part of the lessons of life, part of the
test. Some are tested by poor health, some by a body that is deformed or
homely. Others are tested by handsome and healthy bodies; some by the
passion of youth; others by the erosions of age. Some suffer
disappointment in marriage, family problems; others live in poverty and
obscurity. Some (perhaps this is the hardest test) find ease and luxury.
All are part of the test, and there is more equality in this testing
than sometimes we suspect." — Boyd K. Packer, "The
Choice," General Conference, October 1980
(11/12/00)
"No one wants adversity. Trials, disappointments, sadness, and
heartache come to us from two basically different sources. Those who
transgress the laws of God will always have those challenges. The other
reason for adversity is to accomplish the Lord's own purposes in our
life that we may receive the refinement that comes from testing. It is
vitally important for each of us to identify from which of these two
sources come our trials and challenges, for the corrective action is
very different." — Richard G. Scott, "Trust
in
the Lord," General Conference, October 1995
(11/13/00)
"Learn to accept adversity. No matter who you are or where you
serve, you are going to have some. But do not fear the winds of
adversity. Remember, a kite rises against the wind, rather than with
it!" — Jacob de Jager, "Service
and
Happiness," General Conference, October 1993
(11/21/00)
"From my own experience with life’s hardships I have learned that
faith in God develops a personal love for Him which is reciprocated
through his blessings to us in times of need. To my daughter and to all
others who are meeting new or challenging times, I say: Do not fear the
challenges of life, but approach them patiently, with faith in God. He
will reward your faith with power not only to endure, but also to
overcome hardships, disappointments, trials, and struggles of daily
living. Through diligently striving to live the law of God and with
faith in Him, we will not be diverted from our eternal course either by
the ways or the praise of the world." — Rex D. Pinegar, "Faith—The
Force
of Life," General Conference, October 1982
(11/22/00)
"Life is a school, a place for us to learn and grow. We, like Adam
and Eve, experience 'growing pains' through the sorrow and contamination
of a lone and dreary world. These experiences may include sin, but they
also include mistakes, disappointments, and the undeserved pain of
adversity. The blessed news of the gospel is that the Atonement of Jesus
Christ can purify all the uncleanness and sweeten all the bitterness we
taste." — Bruce C. Hafen, "Beauty
for
Ashes: The Atonement of Jesus Christ," Ensign, Apr. 1990, p. 10
(11/23/00)
"One of the advantages of having lived a long time is that you can
often remember when you had it worse. I am grateful to have lived long
enough to have known some of the blessings of adversity. My memory goes
back to the Great Depression, when we had certain values burned into our
souls. One of these values was gratitude for what we had because we had
so little. We had to learn provident living in order to survive. Rather
than create in us a spirit of envy or anger for what we did not have, it
developed in many a spirit of gratitude for the meager, simple things
with which we were blessed, like hot homemade bread and oatmeal cereal
and many other things." — James E. Faust, "Gratitude
As
a Saving Principle," Ensign, Dec. 1996, p. 2
(11/24/00)
"At times when I feel overwhelmed or alone, unsure or defeated, I
remember that we have a Savior who understands and loves me. His
atonement was personal; it was for me. He knows. He understands." —
Elaine L. Jack, "Get
a
Life," Ensign, July 1995, p. 53
(9/03/02)
"It is not on the pinnacle of success and ease where men and women
grow most. It is often down in the valley of heartache and
disappointment and reverses where men and women grow into strong
characters." — Ezra Taft Benson, Stockholm Sweden Area Conference, 1974
(9/04/02)
"Sadness, disappointment, and severe challenge are events in life,
not life itself. I do not minimize how hard some of these events are.
They can extend over a long period of time, but they should not be
allowed to become the confining center of everything you do. The Lord
inspired Lehi to declare the fundamental truth, 'Men are, that they
might have joy.' That is a conditional statement: 'they might have joy.'
It is not conditional for the Lord. His intent is that each of us finds
joy. It will not be conditional for you as you obey the commandments,
have faith in the Master, and do the things that are necessary to have
joy here on earth." — Richard G. Scott, "Finding
Joy
in Life," General Conference, April 1996
(9/05/02)
"How we wish we could see into the future to know the outcome of
every troublesome decision and to arrive at the destination without
having to make the journey. Many of you pay your tithing, read the
scriptures, keep yourselves morally clean, and pray with real intent.
And yet you may experience periods of disappointment and heartache as
you face the challenges of life. This is normal; your faith is not
misplaced. Remember the words of the hymn, 'Be still, my soul: Thy best,
thy heav'nly Friend / Thru thorny ways leads to a joyful end.'" —
Stephen D. Nadauld, "Learning
to
Be like the Lord," "Ensign," Dec. 1995, p. 11
(9/06/02)
"The key, however, is to boldly face disappointments and the pains
that accompany them. If you deny them or hide them from view, the
chances are great that you will become worn out and fail. If, on the
other hand, you meet them in a prayerful attitude asking for inner
strength to overcome, the original disappointment will turn into an
element of great strength and a firm foundation for further growth." —
Jacob de Jager, "Overcoming
Discouragement," "New Era," Mar. 1984, p. 7
(9/07/02)
"Unfortunately, the frustration, discouragement, and disappointments
we face in life are often brought about by our own lack of preparation.
Then, having no one to blame but ourselves, we add further injury by
becoming critical and unforgiving of ourselves. But if we can train
ourselves to think ahead and to prepare accordingly, we will eliminate
much of the fear we face in life. We will also find that positive
results generally occur, and this significantly influences our mood and
outlook and gives reason for our hopes." — Jack H Goaslind, "Look
to
the Future with Optimism," "Ensign," Apr. 1997, p. 27
(12/16/03)
When we take Jesus' yoke upon us, this admits us eventually to what
Paul called the "fellowship of [Christ's] sufferings" (Philip.
3:10). Whether illness or aloneness, injustice or rejection, etc.,
our comparatively small-scale sufferings, if we are meek, will sink into
the very marrow of the soul. We then better appreciate not only Jesus'
sufferings for us, but also His matchless character, moving us to
greater adoration and even emulation." - Neal A. Maxwell, "From
Whom
All Blessings Flow," General Conference, April 1997
(1/8/04)
"Life isn't always easy. At some point in our journey we may feel
much as the pioneers did as they crossed Iowa--up to our knees in mud,
forced to bury some of our dreams along the way. We all face rocky
ridges, with the wind in our face and winter coming on too soon.
Sometimes it seems as though there is no end to the dust that stings our
eyes and clouds our vision. Sharp edges of despair and discouragement
jut out of the terrain to slow our passage. Always, there is a Devil's
Gate, which will swing wide open to lure us in. Those who are wise and
faithful will steer a course as far from such temptation as possible,
while others--sometimes those who are nearest and dearest to us--succumb
to the attraction of ease, comfort, convenience, and rest. Occasionally
we reach the top of one summit in life, as the pioneers did, only to see
more mountain peaks ahead, higher and more challenging than the one we
have just traversed. Tapping unseen reservoirs of faith and endurance,
we, as did our forebears, inch ever forward toward that day when our
voices can join with those of all pioneers who have endured in faith,
singing: 'All is well! All is well!' (Hymns, no. 30)." - M. Russell
Ballard, "You
Have
Nothing to Fear from the Journey," General Conference, April 1997
(2/2/04)
"Jesus taught that we pass through all these trials to refine us 'in
the furnace of affliction' (1
Ne. 20:10), and that we should not bear them unaided, but 'in
[the] Redeemer's name' (D&C
138:13). In spite of our feeling, at times, that He has forgotten
us, He testifies, 'Yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee....
Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands.' (1
Ne. 21:15-16.)" - Gene R. Cook, "Receiving
Divine
Assistance through the Grace of the Lord," Ensign, May 1993, p. 80
(2/18/04)
"My dear brothers and sisters, when pain, tests, and trials come in
life, draw near to the Savior. 'Wait upon the Lord,... look for him' (Isa.
8:17; 2 Ne.
18:17). 'They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength;
they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be
weary; and they shall walk, and not faint' (Isa.
40:31). Healing comes in the Lord's time and the Lord's way; be
patient." - Robert D. Hales, "Healing
Soul
and Body," Ensign, Nov. 1998, p. 17
(10/19/04)
"'Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God,'" said Jesus to
his Apostles shortly before he picked up the cross to walk to his
crucifixion. Then he prayed for them--out loud--so that they could hear
him. 'This is life eternal, that they might know thee the only true God,
and Jesus Christ, whom thou has sent.' (John
14:1; 17:3.)
These promises from God can comfort and sustain us through any kind of
demand upon our soul. When we turn to God in prayer--with a needful
spirit and a contrite heart and a desire to learn, we will feel the
Spirit, the healing." - Elaine Cannon, "Adversity," [Salt Lake City:
Bookcraft, 1987], p. 51
(1/19/05)
"If we understood completely the designs of the Lord, we would be
more patient in our suffering and would not complain as much as we so
often do when hardships come and we are asked to sacrifice." - Theodore
M. Burton, "Kingdom of God," Ensign, June 1971, p. 84
(2/4/05)
"Like the Savior, we will all have our Gethsemane. And although the
road may be rough at times, if we will hold fast to the rod of iron,
spoken of by Lehi, it will lead us through the mist of darkness. If we
will not be dissuaded by the mocking voices of the world or lose our way
and fall into the river or wander in strange roads, we will pass the
challenging test of life that Abraham foresaw.
"All the effort and struggle and sorrow will be well worth it, for we
will earn the greatest of all gifts, the gift of eternal life." - Henry
D. Taylor, "A
Time of Testing," Ensign, Dec. 1971, p. 44
(3/3/05)
"Friction, or resistance, is an interesting phenomenon. Without this
force, a person or vehicle could not move about, or if already in
motion, could not be stopped except by collision. Simple things like
nails, screws, and bolts would not stay in place; a cork would not stay
in a bottle; a light globe would drop from its socket; a lid would not
stay on a jar.
"The law of friction or resistance that we think of as only applying to
science seems to find application in our personal lives. This is
probably what Lehi was referring to when he spoke to his son Jacob. He
reminded Jacob of the afflictions and sorrows that had come to him
because of the rudeness of his brethren, and told him how these
afflictions would ultimately result in good. These are the words of
Jacob to his son: 'Thou knowest the greatness of God; and he shall
consecrate thine afflictions for thy gain' (2
Ne. 2:2).
"In other words, the afflictions that had come to him in the form of
opposition or resistance would be for his good. Then Lehi added these
words that have become classic: 'For it must needs be, that there is an
opposition in all things. If not so,... righteousness could not be
brought to pass, neither wickedness, neither holiness nor misery,
neither good nor bad' (2
Ne. 2:11).
"We came to mortal life to encounter resistance. It was part of the plan
for our eternal progress." - Howard W. Hunter, "God
Will
Have a Tried People," Ensign, May 1980, 25
(8/27/05)
"Let us remember—trials are an
evidence of a Father's love. They are given as a blessing to his
children. They are given as opportunities for growth.
"Now, how do we approach them? How do we overcome them? How are we
magnified by them? There seems to be a reason why we lose our
composure in adversity—why we think we can no longer cope with what
we're faced with here in this life. There is a reason why we give up,
why we 'fall apart at the seams' so to speak. The reason may be so
simple that we lose sight of it.
"Could it be it's because we begin to lose contact with our greatest
source of strength—our Father in heaven? He is the key to our enjoying
sweetness in adversity—in gaining strength from our trials—he and he
alone." - H. Burke Peterson, "Adversity
and
Prayer," Ensign, Jan. 1974, 19
12/7/05
"Why worry about future calamities or uncertainties over which
you have no control? Your righteous character magnifies the probability
that you will never have to suffer them. When challenges and testing do
come, your faith will lead you to solutions. Your peace of mind, your
assurance of answers to vexing problems, your ultimate joy depend upon
your trust in Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ. Right will
ultimately prevail. It will yield blessings now as you in faith obey the
commandments of God. Remember an unfailing, continual, ever-present
source of peace and comfort is available to you. It is the certainty
that your Father in Heaven loves you no matter what your circumstance,
no matter what winds of trial, turmoil, or tribulation whirl about you.
That certainty will never change. Your ability to access that support
depends on the strength of your faith in Him and in His certain
willingness to bless you." - Richard G. Scott, "The
Sustaining
Power of Faith in Times of Uncertainty and Testing," Ensign (CR),
May 2003, p.75
4/9/06
"In the celestial glory, we are told, 'God shall wipe away all tears
from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor
crying, neither shall there be any more pain.' (Rev.
21:4.) Then faith and hope will replace heartache, disappointment,
torment, anguish, and despair, and the Lord will give us strength, as
Alma says, 'that we should suffer no manner of afflictions, save it were
swallowed up in the joy of Christ.' (Alma
31:38.) Of this I have a testimony, and I so declare it in the
name of Jesus Christ, amen." - James E. Faust, "Spiritual
Healing," Ensign (CR), May 1992, p.6
9/25/06
"Sometimes you may feel to complain to the Lord about a challenge that
has come into your life through no fault of your own. Jacob taught:
'Seek not to counsel the Lord, but to take counsel from his hand. For
behold, ye yourselves know that he counseleth in wisdom, and in justice,
and in great mercy, over all his works.' (Jacob
4:10.)
"God knows what is best for us. Although we may not understand why we
experience some things now, in His timetable we will know and be
grateful.
"He has promised to help us with our burdens: 'I will ... ease the
burdens which are put upon your shoulders, that even you cannot feel
them upon your backs, ... that ye may know of a surety that I, the Lord
God, do visit my people in their afflictions.' (Mosiah
24:14.)
"We are counseled, 'Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain
thee.' (Ps. 55:22.)
I have been greatly helped by laying a vexing matter at His feet for a
while. When I picked it up again, it was lighter and more manageable." -
Richard G. Scott, "He
Lives," Ensign (CR), November 1999, p.87
10/5/06
"Many carry heavy burdens. Some have lost a loved one to death or care
for one who is disabled. Some have been wounded by divorce. Others yearn
for an eternal marriage. Some are caught in the grip of addictive
substances or practices like alcohol, tobacco, drugs, or pornography.
Others have crippling physical or mental impairments. Some are
challenged by same-gender attraction. Some have terrible feelings of
depression or inadequacy. In one way or another, many are heavy laden.
To each of us our Savior gives this loving invitation:
"'Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give
you rest.
"'Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in
heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
"'For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light' (Matthew
11:28–30)." - Dallin H. Oaks, "He
Heals
the Heavy Laden," Ensign, November 2006
10/16/06
"Each of us will have our own Fridays—those days when the universe
itself seems shattered and the shards of our world lie littered about us
in pieces. We all will experience those broken times when it seems we
can never be put together again. We will all have our Fridays.
"But I testify to you in the name of the One who conquered death—Sunday
will come. In the darkness of our sorrow, Sunday will come." - Joseph B.
Wirthlin, "Sunday
Will
Come," Ensign, November 2006
9/19/07
"We are all travelers for a time on this planet earth. One day we shall
return to that dwelling place we knew before, and there rejoice in the
memories of our journey and the experiences of this earth
life—experiences some of which have taken us to the very mountain peaks
of our lives and others into deep valleys as we have been tried and
tested along the way, all for the purpose that we might be prepared to
receive the glory the Lord has for us when we return. Sometimes we must
trudge along in faith not knowing the answers for a time, but always
knowing there is a divine plan and a purpose, and feeling the assurance
of a loving Father in heaven. With this knowledge, we realize that the
tests we are called upon to endure are for our growth, not to consume us
but to refine us, not to discourage us but to enlighten us, and not to
defeat us but to redeem us." - Ardeth Greene Kapp, "My Neighbor, My
Sister, My Friend," p.ix
1/21/08
"Do not let us be discouraged at
difficulties and trials, for we are sent to this state of existence for
the express purpose of descending below all things, that we may pass the
ordeals and trials of this life and thereby prove our integrity and be
prepared to rise above all things. And after all, we have not been
called upon to endure to that extent that the Savior of the world was.
But he was not subjected to the afflictions he had to endure without
hope, neither are we; but we are called to pass through them that we may
prove whether we have power and strength to stand in that day when all
things shall be shaken, and nothing doubting, cleave to the Lord our God
with full purpose of heart, no matter how much things are against us,
apparently. If we can pass these tests and trails we shall prove to God
and angels that we are worthy to receive the welcome plaudit, 'well
done,
thou good and faithful servant, enter thou into the joy of the Lord.'"
- Daniel H. Wells, "Journal of Discourses,"
26 vols., 12:236
10/12/08
"There are so many things
to be endured: illness, injustice, insensitivity, poverty, aloneness,
unresponsiveness, being misrepresented and misunderstood, and,
sometimes, even enemies. Paul reminds us that meek and lowly Jesus,
though the Lord of the universe, 'endured
contradiction of sinners against himself.'
(Heb. 12:3.) Smaller variations of these contradictions or hostilities
will be felt by His disciples." - Neal A. Maxwell, “Endure It Well”,
Ensign (CR), May 1990, p.33
3/8/09
"Aside from the economic tides
which run in the affairs of nations, financial hard times can befall any
of us at any time. There is no guarantee against personal hard financial
times. Financial difficulty may result from several kinds of
misfortunes, including all types of natural disasters such as floods,
fires, and earthquakes. Accidents and illness can produce unexpected and
staggering medical and hospital bills. The misfortunes of other members
of our own family may require our help. Unemployment and inflation can
quickly wipe away hard-earned savings.
"Economic
stress
can involve personal challenges. Discouragement and frustration are
frequent companions to misfortune. Economic problems occasionally put a
strain on family relationships. They often require us to do without
things we feel we want or need. What can be a calamity for one can be an
opportunity for another. Shakespeare, speaking through Duke Senior,
said,
"Sweet
are the uses of adversity;
Which, like the toad, ugly and venomous,
Wears yet a precious jewel in his head.
(As You Like It, act 2, sc. 1, lines 12-14.)
"The
lasting effects of economic challenges are often determined by our
attitude toward life. One writer said, 'Out
of the same substances one stomach will extract nourishment, and
another poison; and so the same disappointments in life will chasten
and refine one man's spirit and embitter another's.'
(William Matthews, Webster's Encyclopedia of Dictionaries, New
American Edition, Ottenheimer Publishers, Inc., p. 864.)"
- James E. Faust, "The Blessings We
Receive As We Meet the Challenges of Economic Stress," Ensign
(CR), November 1982, p.87
2/14/10
“Truly
I have been blessed far beyond that which I merit. And in the coming
days, I pray only that I might always be found as Abraham Lincoln
said: ‘Die when I may, I would like it said of me by those who knew me
best, that I always plucked a thistle, and planted a rose where I
thought a rose would grow.’ I have learned in my life that trials are
blessings in disguise if we accept them with humility, faith, and
fortitude. All that we suffer and endure with patience will build
within us a more charitable and tender person, having acquired the
education we came on earth to receive.” - Lloyd
P. George, “Gratitude,” Ensign (CR), May 1994, p. 27
4/10/10
"It is no secret that Satan wages open war with the truth and
all those who live righteous lives. He deceives with skill and
effectiveness even his own followers. He would have us give up,
quit, rebel when setbacks come. Sometimes in life when we are
committed to and are following proper patterns, we experience
heavy bumps and anxious hours. Many times true winners in life
are those who have been hurt and disappointed but have risen
above these challenges. Very often in life, God gives us
difficulties to bring out the best in us. It is true, life does
not determine winners. Winners determine life."
- Marvin J. Ashton, "A Pattern in All Things," Ensign (CR),
November 1990, p. 20
8/23/10
"If you feel you have been wronged—by anyone (a
family member, a friend, another member of the Church, a Church
leader, a business associate) or by anything (the death of a loved
one, health problems, a financial reversal, abuse, addictions)—deal
with the matter directly and with all the strength you have. 'Hold on
thy way' (D&C
122:9); giving up is not an option. And, without delay, turn to
the Lord. Exercise all of the faith you have in Him. Let Him share
your burden. Allow His grace to lighten your load. We are promised
that we will 'suffer no manner of afflictions, save it were swallowed
up in the joy of Christ' (Alma
31:38). Never let an earthly circumstance disable you
spiritually." - Donald L.
Hallstrom, "Turn
to the Lord," Ensign (CR) May 2010
8/31/10
"I mention five things
that we can learn from those last hours of the Savior’s life on earth
that can help us to face our own trials.
"First, He sought not to do His will but only the will of His Father....
"Second, when we are faced with trials, we must learn to not complain or
murmur....
"Third, when we face our challenges, we must seek greater help from
God....
"Fourth, learn to serve and think of others even in our times of
trial....
"Fifth, forgive others and do not seek to pass the blame of our
situation to them." - James B.
Martino, "All
Things Work Together for Good," Ensign (CR) May 2010
7/2/11
"Most of us experience
some measure of what the scriptures call 'the furnace of affliction' (Isa.
48:10; 1 Ne.
20:10). Some are submerged in service to a disadvantaged family
member. Others suffer the death of a loved one or the loss or
postponement of a righteous goal like marriage or childbearing. Still
others struggle with personal impairments or with feelings of rejection,
inadequacy, or depression. Through the justice and mercy of a loving
Father in Heaven, the refinement and sanctification possible through
such experiences can help us achieve what God desires us to become." - Dallin
H. Oaks, "The
Challenge to Become," Ensign (CR), November 2000, p.32
10/28/11
Does this mean we will
always understand our challenges? Won’t all of us, sometime, have reason
to ask, “O God, where art thou?” Yes! When a spouse dies, a companion
will wonder. When financial hardship befalls a family, a father will
ask. When children wander from the path, a mother and father will cry
out in sorrow. Yes, “weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in
the morning.” Then, in the dawn of our increased faith and
understanding, we arise and choose to wait upon the Lord, saying, “Thy
will be done.”
What, then, does it mean to wait upon the Lord? In the scriptures, the
word wait means to hope, to anticipate, and to trust. To hope and trust
in the Lord requires faith, patience, humility, meekness,
long-suffering, keeping the commandments, and enduring to the end. -
11/8/11
Among the most frequently asked questions of Church leaders are, Why
does a just God allow bad things to happen, especially to good people?
Why are those who are righteous and in the Lord’s service not immune
from such tragedies?
While we do not know all the answers, we do know important principles
that allow us to face tragedies with faith and confidence that there is
a bright future planned for each of us. Some of the most important
principles are:
First, we have a Father in Heaven, who knows and loves us personally and
understands our suffering perfectly.
Second, His Son, Jesus Christ, is our Savior and Redeemer, whose
Atonement not only provides for salvation and exaltation but also will
compensate for all the unfairness of life.
Third, the Father’s plan of happiness for His children includes not only
a premortal and mortal life but also an eternal life as well, including
a great and glorious reunion with those we have lost. All wrongs will be
righted, and we will see with perfect clarity and faultless perspective
and understanding. - Quentin L. Cook,
"
3/31/15
That's the suggestion I have
for dealing with adversity. Don't deny the rain through a false
Pollyanna attitude, or you won't have a rainbow. And don't turn
your back on the light, or you won't see the rainbow either. It
takes both light and rain to make a rainbow, and it will be there
for only a moment. Even in moments of deep adversity and pain,
look for your rainbow. It's there somewhere. - Chieko
N. Okazaki, “Aloha!" p.158
5/17/15
The Prophet Joseph
Smith one time said, when someone had remarked that somebody had
affliction because of their sins, that it is an unhallowed statement
to make, that afflictions come to all. And Matthew Henry said:
"Extraordinary afflictions are not always the punishment of
extraordinary sins, but sometimes the trial of extraordinary graces.
Sanctified afflictions are spiritual promotions.” - George Q.
Morris, Conference Report, October 1958, Afternoon Meeting, p.71
4/6/16
The Lord has
determined in His heart that He will try us until He knows what He
can do with us. He tried His Son Jesus. Thousands of years before
He came upon earth, the Father had watched His course and knew
that He could depend upon Him when the salvation of worlds should
be at stake; and He was not disappointed. So in regard to
ourselves. He will try us, and continue to try us, in order that
He may place us in the highest positions in life and put upon us
the most sacred responsibilities. - Lorenzo
Snow, "The Teachings of Lorenzo Snow," edited by Clyde J.
Williams, p.93
5/11/16
Adversity is all about us and among us. It is an inevitable
element of mortality, and all of us have some share in it
ultimately. But our religion, centering in the life and mission of
the Lord Jesus Christ, helps us comprehend that. God and Christ
love us with a mature, perfect love. The plan by which they lead
requires mortal instruments of their love. We have the great honor
to be invited to be such instruments. We need them, but they also
need us. In this service we find the roots of most of those
blessings that God wants us to enjoy. - Marion
D. Hanks, "The
Royal Law of Love," Ensign (CR), November 1988, p.62
7/15/16
The Prophet Joseph Smith, who knew much about the storms of life,
during one of his darkest moments, cried in anguish: “[My] God,
where art thou? And where is the pavilion that covereth thy hiding
place?” Even as he lifted up his voice, the serene comfort of the
Lord came to him: "Peace be unto thy soul; thine adversity and
thine afflictions shall be but a small moment; and then, if thou
endure it well, God shall exalt thee on high; thou shalt triumph
over all thy foes.” - Joseph B.
Wirthlin, “Finding
a Safe Harbor,” Ensign (CR), May 2000, p.59
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